Friday, February 25, 2011

Why Woman Cannot be Stronger

This is either easy or hard question for some people. Normally, we know that the nature of women is powerless than men. Women are soft for both physic and mental, sometimes cold sometimes hot, complicate feeling just like a dept of ocean difficult to measure.

Men are more likely to be tough, strong both physic and mental, and so on. To me, I don't how men's feeling are but I would say that Men should be more respect to women.

Though, women need more care and respect from men, I would suggest they should be as strong as they can. If we talk about our physic, we cannot overwhelm men but we should try to do things by ourself as possible as we can. Do not try to be flighty.

Sometimes women need to be strong as men, always remember what men can do, we also can do it, in contrast, men not always can do what women can.

In some context, women don't dare to show off their strong behavior and wiser than men, since they know that man do not like woman who is better than he is. Is it fair for woman? Will man feel ashamed when woman are stronger than he is? So, what women should do then? One answer must be: Try to balance it, do what you (woman) can do and also look around others.
Will you have any comments for this post? Any comments are appreciated :)

Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Something I Just Think of

Have you ever think of why people have children? Can we don't have it and live happily?

Before I got some answers from many sources that people need children to continue their family's name, and it is the bond of the parents' relationship, and we also need to produce the human resource for the world. But do you satisfy with these answers? Or you have got any more answers to the question above?

I got another thinking of the question, I think why we should have baby. Maybe we just want to know how pain when mom was in labor, and the taste of life that people always said study, job, married, have babies, and DEATH.

I have found one that quite interesting to me, I always got blame from my parents when i don't do things as they told (I guess everyone have suffered those), so i feel like it's normal when we become our children parents, we will do the same as them. So what is the children for, don't we feel regret if our children will do the same things and we will do the same as what our parents do. Don't we just give them birth to let thing circle, or we often said life is circle.

And one more thing, people said when you are in labor, you will said you don't want the baby. But when you already give us to him/her and you look their faces, you will forget all the pain. Sometimes people said as a lady, she should try once in giving birth to baby or her life is meaningless, since she's got this right or role from the nature.

HOWEVER, if you ask me: Will you have baby if you are married, I would said "yes", because i think I also want to know how it hurt when my mom was in labor, and just like i said it is the role or the priority that men don't have.

Please leave any comments that you can think of.