Before I got some answers from many sources that people need children to continue their family's name, and it is the bond of the parents' relationship, and we also need to produce the human resource for the world. But do you satisfy with these answers? Or you have got any more answers to the question above?
I got another thinking of the question, I think why we should have baby. Maybe we just want to know how pain when mom was in labor, and the taste of life that people always said study, job, married, have babies, and DEATH.
I have found one that quite interesting to me, I always got blame from my parents when i don't do things as they told (I guess everyone have suffered those), so i feel like it's normal when we become our children parents, we will do the same as them. So what is the children for, don't we feel regret if our children will do the same things and we will do the same as what our parents do. Don't we just give them birth to let thing circle, or we often said life is circle.
And one more thing, people said when you are in labor, you will said you don't want the baby. But when you already give us to him/her and you look their faces, you will forget all the pain. Sometimes people said as a lady, she should try once in giving birth to baby or her life is meaningless, since she's got this right or role from the nature.
HOWEVER, if you ask me: Will you have baby if you are married, I would said "yes", because i think I also want to know how it hurt when my mom was in labor, and just like i said it is the role or the priority that men don't have.
Please leave any comments that you can think of.
You make me feel envious of you!
ReplyDeleteHmmm having children to continue the name or heir is just the ideas for most likely Chinese family in the world, and that is the old concept accompanying Chinese people in the new generation.
ReplyDeleteAnd I think that your ideas above are so Asian.
I have no comments for that but to me I am so into Western ideas. I just wanna live my life as happy as I am with my wife the one who is also into western concept. Having baby, having trouble.
Life is so beautiful when we are couples and we just live our life happily going anywhere we want. we don't have to care about what to do with our children. just enjoy the life till we are old enough like 35 or 38 let's have a baby it is not late for me.
I know the feeling as a daddy or mamma though i am not yet a parent. I know what my parents think and care for me and my brothers and sister. They are afraid of them doing something wrong in their life that's why they told and wanted us to do anything they think it is good. and that's also happens abroad which we called parental hood. Anyways, I will point out way for my child and let's him choose as well as give him right like what i want now to do everything he wants and fell happy but just tell him don't commit the wrong thing. that's enough to be a dad.
women should try having baby since she has chance while men have no, but it doesn't mean men do want to know the hardness of that at all.